Need Encouragement?

who am I now?
I have been going thru divorce of a 29 year marriage, re-location that ment quitting my job of 24 years.God has been so faithful and good! I feel much more stable now but still have the roller-coaster emotions. I found divorce care class and man, has that been a blessing! I pray for my X every day and hope that he truns back to his God. Well, I guess I would just like to be able to share with other women (or men) who are going through this same stff. I have started a forum befor but when I am informed by email about a reply I cannot see where or how I can then write back. Help? Thanks
Annie 10/09/2011 14:45

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Ray 10/09/2011 19:33
Annie, One of our friends here has drawn my attention to a post on this topic. I think you will love it, I did. http://www.dailyaudiobible.com/Forums/Messages.aspx?ThreadID=1000029325#new

I suspect the reason that you see no text window to write your reply is that you have not logged into the DAB site. If you go back to the main page and try again. Sometime sessions get dropped and you have to go through that process again.
Helga 10/09/2011 22:09
Annie, I hope you manage to write more in the forums and I pray that God blesses you and your ex. Never easy but with God one seems to move on.
Annie 10/10/2011 23:30
Thanks!! I have discovered how to respond! It is very kool to have people respond to me here. New stuff for me. I am leaning on Jesus and it feels very good. Just very glad to have this forum to communicate in.
Helga 10/11/2011 06:01
Annie I am glad you can respond. It must be hard to get divorced after 29 years of marriage.
Annie 10/17/2011 19:54
It is very hard. I am relying on God more than ever and I know that is right where He wants me to be... but I fight the flesh every day. My mind doesn't want to stop the angry thoughts and I hate how my x's decisions dictate my life now. I am blessed by a wonderful group of new friends and a great new home church. It was very diffacult leaving my church that we had attended as a family for about 24 years. What doesn't kill ya makes ya stronger, right? I miss the companionship of a husband. I can't say enough about the divorce care class I have been taking. It is very helpful to sort out the feelings.
Helga 10/17/2011 22:36
Annie it is often very hard to give advise and I am amazed of how many just decide after so many years of marriage to get a divorce. I wonder how they want to get older? All on their own? therefore I feel for you for saying you miss the companionship. It is true. On the other hand if your X does not want you, there is only one thing you can do ask God to guide you in "moving on"

Lord Jesus often we do not know why things happen and I pray that you dig into their hearts and heal their brokenness. Shine you light upon them and fill them with your wisdom and understanding.

Philippians 4:7
7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus
Helga 10/22/2011 05:51
Annie, how are you today? I am praying for you

Annie 10/22/2011 10:01


I am doing fair-thank you! I need to do my divorce care homework every day as suggested instead of the night before the class....daily Bible study has allways been a struggle for me.

My X just visited our daughter and I spent some time with all of them. It was a diffacult thing for me but it also encouraged me by making it rather obvious that I am healing, where he is the same old guy. I will keep praying for him. I know God is working and we don't allways see how.
Have you been through a divorce? Are you married now? Can I pray for you too?
Helga 10/22/2011 23:55
Annie I keep praying for you and understand that sudden changes in our lives are not easy to master. Only God can give us the strength to carry on when we feel hopeless and weak and I believe He is busy healing you from the inside out so that you will be a witness for Him and will help many other broken vessels.
Annie I am married 30 years at the end of this year and became a Christian only 20 years ago and realize how God has changed my marriage and life. God is still working in my life and I pray every day for my spouse and children to open the door for Jesus to enter.
Annie 10/24/2011 11:13
Thank you, Helga for your prayer. I see you all over the foroms, praying for so many-encouraging so many. What a neat ministry. I hope you have a good week.