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Need Encouragement?
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Need prayer for my marriage
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I have been married for 13 years and this is not the first time my marriage has been in trouble. We have never had God at the head of out relationship. He found another (married) woman to focus his attention because I was not the wife God wanted me to be. He has served me with divorce papers and I have responded. As of right now, he has taken no further action. The kids and I moved out on January 23.
He says he feels nothing so he has done nothing but prays all the time. I have told him that God will not direct him if he does not give it all to Him. The hubby is still holding on to the past because he says I hurt him so bad. I gave it all to God so I have forgiven him for everything even though it is hard to forget. It is hard for both of us to trust the other.
Please pray that God touches my hubby's heart and gives him direction. I would like my marriage to succeed but I will follow whatever God says. Waiting is the hardest part. Sometimes I wonder if I should go ahead and press for divorce or just keep waiting. I need your prayers, please.
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Leia 03/02/2012 10:36 |
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Craig from Illinois
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03/04/2012 17:26 |
Leia,
This sounds like a desperate situation where there are more loses than wins. In love I am praying for you, your husband and especially your children. I have no idea what Father has planned but if you want to be redeemed then you have to accept how God redeems you. That's opposed to what you think redemption looks like.
Peace and grace -
Craig
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Davidwayne Lackey
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03/04/2012 20:55 |
Praying
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Helga
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03/04/2012 21:43 |
We often do not understand one another because we do not know our spouse "Love Language". Maybe a book to consider.
Lord give them wisdom and understanding and I pray that you help them to restore that what was lost.
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Leia
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03/04/2012 22:03 |
Thanks everyone but I don't think it matters any more. I made him mad again and I don't think there is any hope. All will be good because God will provide.
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